Sunday, November 25, 2007

Hmmm...

I know it's been a while since I've last posted. I've been using my myspace blog because I wanted certain people to read my entries and they don't know this blog exists.

Not too much new has been going on in my life. I was working a lot, went wine tasting for the first time, got a new car and spent a lot of time with John. Oh yea and the big one, got my ex fired from work.

Now, don't go thinking I'm just a horrible person who wants my ex miserable cause that it definitely not the case here! You see, we work together (well, I guess it's worked now) at a company owned by his brother. I had been with the company a year before he came along. In short, we started dating, we had a pretty rocky relationship that jeopardized my job many times and then 2 1/2 years later we were through. Well, him and I continued to be friends because it just seemed like the best thing to do since we had to see eachother all the time. Recently though, he'd been acting real strange. Rapid weight loss, I'd catch him drinking in his truck on lunch breaks and money started coming up missing from our satellite store when he'd be there alone. He admitted to me that he had taken the money cause he was having a rough time but he would put it back. Finally his brother came to me because he was noticing a change and I told him everything that I knew. I don't think he quite believed me. He would make excuses for why money was gone or why his brother smelled of alcohol during work. Well, one day I noticed a large amount of money missing and had to tell the boss. We did some research and everything pointed at my ex. When they questioned him, he admitted to it and was immediately terminated. I've been having a hard time with it too. To see someone I was once so close to be at such a low that he would steal from his own family is very hard. I've been working every day to just move on and get past this whole thing but it's hard. Lucky for me, John has been so amazing and it helps me see even more why I'm so glad I have him and my ex is long gone.